I like the way you think. Can we talk? 😂😂 but nah it's true... I mean what's also true is that doing things as a means to an end is different than doing it altruistically. But most people do have goals when it comes to love.... Which begets a whole nother conversation about love being seen as a form of possession.... It's a lot you could discuss 😂 all I know is you gotta start with loving and respecting yourself without being attached to proving yourself to anyone because life not a competition ultimately