Thank you for writing this. Our country definitely has an issue with misogyny and people don't realize it. Women are objectified and not seen as whole human beings and mistreated as a result. I appreciate you even going out of your way to address the common refrains from many insecure men about men being used for money and etc. Somehow people will still find a way to turn this into a competition, rather than understanding multiple things can hold true at once. Women are allowed to be centered in the conversation without going tit for tat, just like with race, or any other issue this country has going on. the overall cultures of our men and women interactions need to be examined so we can understand how to move in the right direction.