We have different experience based on what we look like. If she late to the party (even thought nothing really indicates she was from what I know) who cares if she made it? Who do we think we are to judge people and their learning curves? So it's a slap in the face she had a different life experience? That's a very selfish way to look at life.
It sucks that many people don't see the nuance to understand situations fr. Multiple things can hold true at once. Like the author opinion really matters anyways lmao this is what's wrong with people today. We aren't even that smart, not even that wise, but think we can pass judgment on people, without the underlying value of compassion and care. It's wild